First time buying lube? No need to overthink it—it’s one of the simplest ways to make everything feel that much better. Whether you’re exploring intimacy solo, with a partner, and want to avoid discomfort the next day, lube is your new BFF. Think of it as the ultimate wingman: it’s there to reduce friction, add comfort, and make pleasure seamless when the body has a mind of its own.
Not sure where to start? Well there’s water-based and silicone lubes, the usual suspects in the lubricant world of pleasure. Sure, they each have their pros and cons, which you can read here but if you’re feeling like something new to the traditional go-to’s, then go raw. Not raw as in a bit of spit and a hope for the best. Let’s be (left of) straight here, we’re talking a high quality, raw coconut lube like Loobco. It offers a natural, silky-smooth touch that makes you feel all the feels.
The good news though, is there’s no “wrong” lube—it’s all about what feels good to you and the people you connect too. You should try them all.
So, take a deep breath, grab that jar or tube, and give yourself permission to explore. Because as the famous sex educator Emily Nagoski says, “There’s no right way to do sex. There’s only your way.” And your way just got a whole lot smoother.
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