Carolyn Elliott, the queen of “shadow work meets sensuality,” teaches us that erotic joy isn’t just about the big O—it’s about embracing playfulness, curiosity, and a dash of audacity in the bedroom (or anywhere else, for that matter). Her philosophy invites us to explore intimacy not as a chore but as an art form—one where laughter, creativity, and yes, lube, take centre stage.
So how does a humble jar of lube fit into Carolyn’s playful world of eroticism? Let it be your co-star. Start with sensual massages—use a silky coconut lube from us, your pleasure advocates at Loobco to turn your partner’s body into a playground of touch. Draw patterns, explore curves, and don’t be afraid to make it a little cheeky (trace their favourite swear word if you’re feeling naughty). Or bring in a touch of whimsy—try role-play or blindfolds paired with different lubes for a sensory adventure that’s equal parts hilarious and hot.
The key to Carolyn-inspired intimacy is not taking yourself too seriously, lean into the repressed, uncomfortable, unwanted parts of ourselves. Have fun with your exploration: use warming lubes to “spice things up” (literally), mix coconut lube with a few drops of essential oil for an impromptu foot massage, or test out slippery surfaces beyond the bedroom. Erotic joy, as Carolyn would say, is about saying yes to curiosity and creativity—and a great lube is your permission slip to do just that.
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